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Bichonluver3
04-30-2012, 11:04 PM
We will bury our 28 year old son tomorrow in LA. He was extremely gifted and had a wonderful future ahead. Our hearts are broken. See Facebook pages "Carrol Magder, Aviva Fersht, ari Magder and Joshua Magder".
Carrol (Chloe's mom)
A phoenix rose from the ashes and perched precariously from a cliff. He seemed to rule the world - spreading love, friendship, wisdom and loyalty throughout the land. All who were touched by his magic took him into their hearts forever. Then the phoenix slipped and fell and returned to the ashes, only to then be swallowed by the earth. There will never be another phoenix.
I will love you forever, my precious son. Mom
frijole
04-30-2012, 11:28 PM
Carrol, I am at total loss as to what I could possibly say other than I am so terribly terribly sorry. God Bless you and yours and know that we love you and are praying for you. Kim
Casey's Mom
04-30-2012, 11:30 PM
Carrol, I haven't been on in a while and something tugged at me to check out my friends and how they are doing. I can't possibly imagine what you are going through sweetheart. I just want you to know that I am here with you now holding you :
BestBuddy
04-30-2012, 11:39 PM
Carol,
There are no words that will comfort at this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jenny
Harley PoMMom
04-30-2012, 11:59 PM
Oh Carrol,
I am so terribly sorry, too, and my heart goes out to you and your family. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Lori
Spiceysmum
05-01-2012, 03:04 AM
Carrol,
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. God Bless.
Linda
lulusmom
05-01-2012, 06:13 AM
Carrol, I am so incredibly sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Glynda
mytil
05-01-2012, 06:15 AM
OMG, dearest Carrol,
I am so incredibly sorry! There are no words. My heart and tears are with you and your family.
((((((hugs))))))
Terry
Bo's Mom
05-01-2012, 06:52 AM
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Please accept our deepest condolences.
labblab
05-01-2012, 06:57 AM
Carrol, I send my prayers and hopes for strength to you and your family. This is a tragedy beyond words. Thank you so much for telling us, though, so that we can honor your son's spirit in all of our hearts today. I hope you will be able to sense our presence alongside you, and to know that you are never alone.
Sending many, many hugs across the miles,
Marianne
SasAndYunah
05-01-2012, 11:26 AM
Dear Carrol,
I'm so lost for words right now... Please know I'll be holding you and your family close to my heart and in my thoughts, sending you all the courage and strength you may need,
Saskia.
Squirt's Mom
05-01-2012, 11:29 AM
Dear Carrol,
All I can say is that you are not alone. There simply are no words that can make this pain any less but knowing you do not have to carry this burden alone can help. We are here for you any time.
I am a few years further down this devastating road than you and am here for you to use if you wish. I have no magic words but I do understand and have strong shoulders.
Your precious Phoenix has risen - through the ashes, through the flames and into Peace where he will be waiting for you when your job here is done.
My heart-felt sympathies,
Leslie and my Angel, Gia
Dearest Carrol,
I saw this post and could not even look at it until now. Your family has given the ultimate sacrifice. No words spoken now can possibly ease your pain. I wont ask any questions but know that we are all here and ready to listen if you need to speak. We love you and hold you close, ready to help any way we can.
Dearest Carrol, dearest friend, my heart goes out to you and your family. If I could come and hold you I would.
love,
addy
Bailey's Mom
05-02-2012, 11:21 PM
Hi Carrol-
I've been looking for you on your former Everything Else page and it was just today that Addy told me you had posted.
I am so very, very sorry. The loss of a child is almost unfathomable. I am here for you as the others said. I am sending strength and hugs in the hopes you will be able to feel them. Please take care of yourself.
Love,
Susan
Roxee's Dad
05-02-2012, 11:25 PM
Carol,
I am so very, very sorry. My sincere condolences.
marie adams
05-05-2012, 12:00 PM
Oh Dear Sweet Sister Carrol,
I wish I had the right words to comfort you in this time of saddness. I cannot image what I would feel losing my child. You are a wonderful person and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take care and (((((HUGS))))!!!!
tiggylola62
05-05-2012, 12:25 PM
So so sorry. xxx
Bichonluver3
05-22-2012, 11:32 PM
Thank you so much to all my good friends at K9cushings and K9diabetes for their kind thoughts and prayers. Ari’s passing was due to a tragic accident and was a terrible shock to our family.
Ari’s friends came from all around the world within 24 hours – some from as far as India and Singapore.
The Navy was wonderful in getting Joshua home to us right away and allowing him to stay for 2 weeks.
My daughter, Aviva, has been a rock – holding shiva at her house for hundreds of people over the week, some of whom, especially Ari’s friends who didn’t want to be alone, stayed until 2:00 or 3:00 every night telling stories.
We never knew our son was loved by so many people and had touched so many lives. That is what keeps us going every day. I guess the light that burns the brightest, burns the quickest.
Again, my love and thanks to all of you. You mean the world to me.
Love, Carrol
Bailey's Mom
06-19-2012, 05:21 PM
Hi Carrol,
I just wanted you to know I think of you often. I hope you're healing.
BBBBIIIIIGGGGGGGG HHUUUUUUGG
-Susan
Bailey's Mom
12-24-2012, 08:34 AM
Carrol-
I hope life is a little easier now. I miss you very much and hope you are well.
Merry Christmas and the happiest of New Years!!!!!!!
May all of your Christmas wishes come true...
May we all stay away from any and all cliffs,
Peace and Joy to all!
Love,
Susan
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